Out
(adj, verb)
In LGBTQ communities, “out” is used in a variety of ways. “Coming out” refers to a person’s process of disclosing their sexual orientation or gender identity with another person (Source, source). “Being outed” refers to a person’s sexual orientation or gender identity being disclosed with someone else either intentionally or accidentally. “Out” can also be used to describe oneself, indicating that they have disclosed their sexual identity and/or gender identity with others (e.g., “I am only out to my friends'').
Examples: Leo shared that he “came out” to close friends over the summer, which means he shared with them that he is transgender. Leo sharing his affirmed name and pronouns on Ms. Aguilar’s welcome form was another way for Leo to “come out.” Leo did not want to be “outed” to his parents by Ms. Aguilar.
Why it’s important to know this: When a student comes out to you, it is important to ask who else the student has disclosed this information with so that you do not unintentionally out them to individuals they don’t want to be out to (Source).